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			<description>I use this with my collection staff. I learned it from our past chairman, R.B. Campbell, owner of the local drug store: 

&quot;Better for the customer to be mad and me have my money, than me be mad and the customer have my money.&quot; - Fred Brashear, Hyden Citizens Bank, Inc., Hyden, Ky. </description>
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			<description>I keep this where I can see and read it daily:

&quot;Lord, help me to remember that nothing is going to happen to me today that You and I together cannot handle.&quot; - Sharon Burran, president and COO, Woodhaven National Bank, Fort Worth, Texas</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 17:04:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>I love quotes and save many. Here are just few of my favorites that I keep around my desk:

Under the glass on my desk

&quot;Life is not made by the dreams you dream, but by the choices you make.&quot;

Coffee cup

&quot;In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.&quot; -Proverbs 3:6

By my computer

&quot;In a world where you can be anything, be yourself.&quot; -Author Unknown


&quot;Contentment is not having everything you want. True contentment is wanting only what you have.&quot; -Author Unknown
 - Stacey Bentley, Cedar Valley Market President, Community National Bank, Waterloo, Iowa-Cedar Falls, Iowa</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 16:48:05 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>I have 4 sayings that I find myself looking at from time to time (besides picture of my family and granddaughter). First is a poem a have kept on my desk for about 38 years (longer than I have been a banker). It is called &quot;The Man In The Glass,&quot; author anonymous.
 
[i]When you get what you want in your struggle for self
And the world makes you king for a day,
Just go to a mirror and look at yourself,
And see what THAT man has to say.
 
For it isn't your father or mother or wife
Whose judgment upon you must pass;
The Fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass.
 
You may be like Jack Horner and chisel a plum
And think you're a wonderful guy.
But the man in the glass says you're only a bum
If you can't look him straight in the eye.
 
He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest,
For he's with you clear up to the end,
And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the man in the glass is your friend.
 
You may fool the whole word down the pathway of years
And get pats on the back as you pass,
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears
If you've cheated the man in the glass.[/i]
 
 &lt;b&gt;•&lt;/b&gt;
 
Then when I started lending I put a paper under the glass titled BASIC CREDIT FACTORS
 
[i]The MAN-Management
Financial Position &amp; Progress
Repayment Capacity
Purpose              
Security[/i]
 
In that order, and I still find myself looking at that on a tough lending decision.

 
 &lt;b&gt;•&lt;/b&gt;
 
When I became president of the bank, I added another under the glass. A quote from Henry Ford.
 
[i]&quot;Coming together is a beginning
Keeping together is progress
Working together is success.&quot;[/i]
 
Recently I added another quote from Malcolm Forbes
 
[i]&quot;As you get older, don't slow down;
Speed up. There’s less time left.&quot;[/i]
 - Paul Siebernmorgen, president and CEO, Farmers and Merchants State Bank, Archbold, Ohio, $923 million-assets</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 15:53:57 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>&quot;You choose whether to lead or manage. The more you manage, the less you lead. The more you lead, the less you have to manage.&quot;  (Anonymous)
 
&quot;To be successful is to be helpful, caring and constructive, to make everything and everyone you touch a little bit better. The best thing you have to give is yourself.&quot;  (Norman Vincent Peale)
 - Charles Funk, president and CEO, MidWestOne Bank, $1.7 billion-assets, Iowa City, Iowa</description>
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			<description>I have quite a few quotes, sayings, thoughts that I keep at my fingertips in my desk. My three favorites that I find energy and inspiration from are as follows:  

&quot;Be a good listener. Your ears will never get you in trouble.&quot; 
     Frank Tyger 

&quot;You don't manage people: you manage things. You lead people.&quot; 
     Admiral Grace Hooper 

&quot;When a man is wrapped up in himself he makes a pretty small package.&quot;

     John Ruskin

 - George Marx, chairman, president, and CEO, Copiah Bank NA, Hazelhurst, Miss.</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 14:38:14 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>&quot;If the rate of change on the outside exceeds the rate of change on the inside, the end is near.&quot; (Jack Welch)

&quot;Never do anything when you are in a temper, for you will do everything wrong&quot; (Baltasar Gracián)

&quot;A leader should be slow to punish and swift to reward&quot; (Ovid–original quote used “ruler”)

 - Daniel C. Yates, president and CEO, Brattleboro Savings &amp; Loan, $179.2 million-assets, Brattleboro, Vt.</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 14:35:34 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>Here are two quotes we live by at Union Bank.
 
1.  &quot;If you are not busy being born, you're busy dying.&quot; Bob Dylan

2. &quot;People are unwilling to do the work it takes to build a real company, which is the hardest work in business.&quot; Steve Jobs

 - Thomas Combs, president and CEO, Union Bank and Trust Co., Oxford, N.C.</description>
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			<description>I keep two things very close at hand. The first is a signed cartoon by Pulitzer Prize winner Tony Auth. It appeared in the Washington post in January 1983. It depicts two male lawmakers leaving the capital. We see their backs. 

In the foreground a women is on her knees scrubbing the floor. Above one lawmaker is the bubble:  &quot;My God, they’ve introduced the ERA again.&quot;  In his companions's bubble: &quot;Aren’t they tired?&quot;  Tony inscribed the cartoon &quot;The victory goes to the tireless.&quot;  

For those who have forgotten that ERA stood for the Equal Rights Amendment it is likely you may also have forgotten we came close to ratifying it but it was never passed. However, I am a testament to the fact that just the process, and the tireless march for equality, has made women's access to equal opportunity and pay much better than it was in 1983!  So, I look at my treasured, autographed cartoon . .. especially on long, dark days, and I draw encouragement and inspiration from my belief that victory is a journey.

The second item is a picture of my nephew Jeff in his Marine Corps  blue dress uniform, saluting with tears rolling down his face. On the frame is inscribed “Be strong.”  

The photo was taken at his uncle--my husband's--interment at Punchbowl, the military cemetery in Hawaii. This inspires me because it helps me remember that if you can show your emotions and weaknesses--and most marines would tell you tears are a weakness-- you can face them and become even stronger. 

I am a better leader because I can honestly tell people when a decision or course of action is difficult and I can share the difficulty.

 - Laurie Stewart, president and CEO, Sound Community Bank, $355.1 million-assets, Seattle, Wash</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2012 14:27:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>I took these from a Mary Engelbriet day calendar a few years ago.
 
&quot;Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, it empties today of its strength.&quot;
 
&quot;Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings&quot; (This is supposedly from Samuel Johnson.) - Brenda Schauer, Security State Bank, Wishek, ND </description>
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			<description>&quot;It's not about you...&quot;OTHERS&quot;!&quot; - Ed Zimmerman</description>
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			<description>My plate may be full, but everything is quite delicious. – Unknown

The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. - Dorothy Nevill
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			<description>&quot;The Past is past, the Future is not yet risen, and even the Present thought, once experienced, becomes the Past.  All we have is Nowness, is Now.&quot; -Sogyal Rinpoche

It reminds me that nothing is forever: a failure isn't permanent and a success is a stepping stone.   - Rebecca Svingen</description>
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			<description>It is not that you lied to me that bothers me.  It is that I may never trust you again.
A. Lincoln - James McCall, Columbia State Bank, The Dalles, Oregon</description>
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			<description>Hey, you are in the United States, you have the right to be wrong. - Jon K.</description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2012 17:13:41 +0100</pubDate>
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			<description>&quot;When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.&quot;  Franklin D. Roosevelt - Margaret Smeeding</description>
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			<description>&quot;It's not the hours you put in the work that counts, its the work you put in the hours&quot;
This quote keeps me reminded to work hard whan you have work to do, and not waste time. - Bill Van Damme</description>
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			<description>&quot;Work for a cause, not for applause.  Live life to express, not to impress.  Don't strive to make your presence noticed, just make your absence felt&quot; 
~ Unknown - Kathy Schwerdtfager, The Bank of Tescott</description>
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			<description>You may have to live out another person's bad decision; but how you live it out is &quot;your&quot; decision. - Pamela</description>
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			<description>The MBA oath

Our bank's mission statement &amp; the key stratagies

&quot;Never let the fear of striking out get in your way.&quot; Babe Ruth

&quot;Pay attention to your thoughts because your thoughts become your words,
your words become your actions,
your actions become your character,
and your character becomes your destiny.&quot;

And most important -

The six lessons of a satifying, productive career
1. There is no plan
2. Think strengths not weaknesses
3. It's not about you
4. Persistance trumps talent
5. Make excellent mistakes
6. Leave an imprint - leslie montano</description>
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